My Husband Died at His FIFO Camp in WA — Bringing Him Home to Adelaide Costs More Than We Expected
Asked by windward_ledger6 ·
Dave had a heart attack at his camp near Newman three days ago. He was FIFO (two weeks on, one off) for about six years, and this is exactly the call you brace for the whole time and never actually expect to get. We're in Adelaide. Kids are 9 and 12.
The site manager was actually really good, got a local funeral director involved straight away, but when they explained what's involved in bringing him back to Adelaide for the funeral I honestly wasn't ready for the number. It's not been explained super clearly yet, something about a road transfer versus flying him back needing embalming and a special container, but it sounds like this is on top of the actual funeral cost, not part of it. Is that normal? Is there any way around it, or is this just what it costs when someone dies this far from home?
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I'm sorry about Dave. And yes, what you've been told is normal. I've handled this exact situation more times than I can count over the years, almost always FIFO or defence families. Transporting someone between states genuinely is a separate cost sitting on top of the funeral itself, and it's driven mainly by distance and whether it goes by road or air. Newman to Adelaide is a long way, so you're almost certainly looking at air transport, which means embalming and an approved container are required by the airline regardless of which funeral home you use. That's not something either funeral director is padding the quote with, it's a standard commercial airline requirement for human remains.
Two funeral directors will be coordinating this between themselves (the one near the camp and one in Adelaide), so your main job isn't logistics, it's deciding, and there's a genuine second option worth asking about before you commit: many families in your exact position choose a direct cremation or a small service up in WA first, then bring the ashes home to Adelaide for the funeral or a memorial instead of transporting the body the full distance. Ashes travel within Australia with no special permit needed, so that step alone removes most of the cost you're facing. It's not a lesser choice. Some families actually prefer a smaller farewell where their person spent their working life, with the main service still held at home. This page on the interstate transport process walks through both paths and what typically drives the cost either way. Ask both funeral directors for an itemised quote for each option before deciding anything. Three days in is not too early to ask, and it'll actually make the coming week easier to plan around.
We didn't have the interstate part, but I remember exactly that feeling of a number turning up that nobody warned us about beforehand. You're already carrying so much and then there's a cost conversation on top of it you didn't know to prepare for. What Paperlantern said about the ashes option is worth actually sitting with rather than defaulting past it, even if bringing him home feels like the "real" choice right now. We didn't have that option ourselves, but a friend of mine did exactly that after her dad died interstate (service where he was, ashes home for the family gathering), and she said afterwards it genuinely wasn't the compromise she expected it to feel like going in. No right answer, just worth actually weighing both before the week gets away from you.
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